If you’ve resisted online dating because of your preconceived notions about how it is, I assure you, it’s because you’ve never tried it my way.
There I found eight questions all saying the same thing: “Where is the best place to meet a quality, relationship-oriented man? As opinionated as I am, I’m always open to the possibility of being proven wrong. Because studies show that facts don’t actually matter when you have a deeply held opinion. If I told you that 2 2 = 4, but you believe that 2 2 = 5, no amount of evidence can make you change your mind. Which goes to show that the people who are dating online are finding love at a significantly higher rate than people who rely on workplace romance or set-ups. You just spent more than an entire month on and you didn’t meet any guys either.
I’m really open to everything you say, Evan, but I never meet any good men! It’s certainly frustrating to want to prioritize your love life, but not have the opportunity to meet any new men on a day-to-day basis. The reason you’re single is simply that you haven’t met the right guy – and yet you have no idea where he’s coming along. Before you tune out or run away screaming, hear me out. In fact, any evidence that I provide that contradicts you is only going to make you believe in your original premise more. Yes, you’re hardwired to be stubborn and, as such, you can easily fall victim to “the confirmation bias”, which seeks out information which only reaffirms what you already believe (biting my tongue on the obvious Fox News joke…) So, if you have dated online and discovered the following: • Men sometimes lie. You think that 90% of men online are “wrong” for you. But so are 90% of men in bars, on buses, or in Starbucks.
It’s literally EVERYTHING I know about online dating, with a 180 page transcript, a 35 page workbook and 7 hours of coaching with the same exact information that my private clients get on the phone.
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