One of my craziest experiences as a bull for a couple is tame by some standards.
The husband was a successful banker in southern CT and actually not a meek person but in the bedroom he was very submissive and he got off on seeing the juxtaposition of his wholesome wife and mother of his kids turn into a sex slave for a more dominant man.
Last year when talking dirty, I kind of accidently told my girlfriend about my strange fantasy of watching her with other men.
We talked and decided it was something that we would look to try if the chance came up and that's just what happened.
He came over less than an hour ago, we sat on the couch together, talked for a bit. And I believe that's how nearly all women communicate, from my experience.