That’s bad enough for you, but you should not be a party to putting a child through that.3) Being around the child(ren) exposes you to false charges of abuse.
If the child likes you, if you’re nice to the child, that’s no insurance against false accusations. These children are more likely to have mental and emotional problems.
I think it holds up well and is highly relevant in today's world.]Not of all of these reasons apply to everyone.
Some men are dating for sex, others are dating for marriage and sex, for example. Men, especially men with game, have a choice in women. Unless you’re a pedophile, it is extremely unlikely that a woman with a child has anything to offer that’s of benefit to you that a woman without a child lacks.
This reason alone should eliminate single mothers from your consideration.4) You WILL have to pay more than if you date a childless woman.